Clash of Clans will happily match you with strangers all day. Playing with a specific person, which is what you want if that person is your partner, takes a couple of extra steps. They are below.
Before you start
You each need your own copy on your own phone. Clash of Clans is on both the App Store and Google Play, so it does not matter which of you is on iPhone and which is on Android.
It is free to download, so there is no reason for one of you to hold off and watch over the other's shoulder.
Step by step
- Install it on both phones. Do this before you sit down to play — first-launch downloads are always bigger than you expect.
- Friend each other in-game. This is the step that connects the two of you rather than putting you in a public lobby.
- Play together or challenge one another.
- Stay on a call while you set up the first time. Working out one game's friend system together takes five minutes; doing it over text takes half an hour.
When you cannot find each other
- Make sure you are both fully signed in, not playing as a guest — guest accounts are the most common reason a friend request never arrives.
- Check you have both got the app updated. A version gap can hide one of you from the other.
- Have the person creating the session send the invite rather than both of you searching at once.
- Restart the app on both phones before assuming something is broken.
Making Clash of Clans work as a couple thing
Once the setup is done, the question becomes whether you keep playing. Clash of Clans is easy to drop into together whenever you both have a spare moment, and that shapes how to fit it into a week.
- Plan and play together, or test your skills head-to-head.
- Every match sparks a little friendly strategy talk.
- Deep enough to keep you both coming back.
Agree on how long a session is before you start. "One more round" is how a ten-minute game eats an evening.
Similar games worth having installed
- Among Us — Among Us is the hugely popular social deduction game where Crewmates race to finish tasks while hidden Impostors quietly sabotage and eliminate them.
- Pokémon UNITE — Pokémon UNITE is a 5v5 MOBA where teams of Pokémon battle to score points in fast ten-minute matches.
- Clash Royale — Clash Royale is a real-time card-and-tower duel where you deploy troops to take down your opponent’s towers in three-minute matches.
More of the same kind on our category page.
Where to go next
If nothing here fits, start from the other end and pick the game with the lowest cost to open on a bad day. For us that is Our Flower Garden.
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Frequently asked questions
- How do I play Clash of Clans with my partner?
- Install Clash of Clans on both phones, friend each other in-game, then start a session together. The friend step is what keeps you out of a public lobby.
- Can you play Clash of Clans with friends as well as your partner?
- Yes — the same friend system that connects the two of you works for a wider group, so Clash of Clans scales up on the nights you want company.
- Why can't my partner see me in Clash of Clans?
- Usually one of you is signed in as a guest, or one copy of the app is out of date. Sign in properly on both phones, update both, then send the invite from one side rather than searching from both.
- Do we need to be in the same room to play Clash of Clans?
- No. Clash of Clans plays online, so the two of you can be anywhere as long as you both have a connection.
