FarmVille 3 will happily match you with strangers all day. Playing with a specific person, which is what you want if that person is your partner, takes a couple of extra steps. They are below.
Before you start
You each need your own copy on your own phone. FarmVille 3 is on both the App Store and Google Play, so it does not matter which of you is on iPhone and which is on Android.
It is free to download, so there is no reason for one of you to hold off and watch over the other's shoulder.
Step by step
- Install it on both phones. Do this before you sit down to play — first-launch downloads are always bigger than you expect.
- Add each other as neighbours or friends. This is the step that connects the two of you rather than putting you in a public lobby.
- Build and grow your world at your own pace.
- Stay on a call while you set up the first time. Working out one game's friend system together takes five minutes; doing it over text takes half an hour.
When you cannot find each other
- Make sure you are both fully signed in, not playing as a guest — guest accounts are the most common reason a friend request never arrives.
- Check you have both got the app updated. A version gap can hide one of you from the other.
- Have the person creating the session send the invite rather than both of you searching at once.
- Restart the app on both phones before assuming something is broken.
Making FarmVille 3 work as a couple thing
Once the setup is done, the question becomes whether you keep playing. FarmVille 3 is a slow, low-stakes world you both potter around in, and that shapes how to fit it into a week.
- Build and grow something together at a relaxing pace.
- Visit and help each other’s world any time.
- Cozy, creative and easy to dip into daily.
Agree on how long a session is before you start. "One more round" is how a ten-minute game eats an evening.
Similar games worth having installed
- Hay Day — Hay Day is Supercell’s relaxing farming game where you grow crops, raise animals and trade goods.
- Township — Township blends farming with city-building — grow crops, run factories and develop a bustling town.
- Our Flower Garden — Our Flower Garden is a cozy mobile game where you and your partner tend one shared garden — planting, watering and harvesting flowers to fill orders together.
More of the same kind on our category page.
Where to go next
The games that last between two people are rarely the exciting ones. Our Flower Garden is our standing recommendation for exactly that reason: one garden, no timers, no way to fall behind.
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- Our full list of the best mobile couple games
Frequently asked questions
- How do I play FarmVille 3 with my partner?
- Install FarmVille 3 on both phones, add each other as neighbours or friends, then start a session together. The friend step is what keeps you out of a public lobby.
- Can you play FarmVille 3 with friends as well as your partner?
- Yes — the same friend system that connects the two of you works for a wider group, so FarmVille 3 scales up on the nights you want company.
- Why can't my partner see me in FarmVille 3?
- Usually one of you is signed in as a guest, or one copy of the app is out of date. Sign in properly on both phones, update both, then send the invite from one side rather than searching from both.
- Do we need to be in the same room to play FarmVille 3?
- No. FarmVille 3 plays online, so the two of you can be anywhere as long as you both have a connection.
